Always be mindful that your value has no-thing to do with anyone’s thoughts, opinion about you, nor their actions toward you. Your value has no-thing to do with your net worth, network, job title, level of authority, education status, or possessions. Living in a comparative reality takes you further away from your #authentic self. Just because everyone else is doing _______ (fill in the blank), doesn’t mean it’s right for you, and if anyone doubts that, it isn’t you that they are doubting. They are doubting themselves, because they still seek validation from the outside to build confidence. Confidence is only built from within. Confidence built from outside of you will always be temporary, which requires you to seek more validation from others. It’s a vicious cycle that creates unhappiness even in people who attempt to hide it by overcompensating, ie. ultra competitive, loud and aggressive. #coaching
We have all heard people say to follow the crowd, be a team player, or to emulate someone else, however, they only say that because someone told them that was the best way to be in life. They believed it without checking in with their own intuition. They may not even realize they have intuition because someone told them it wasn’t real or didn’t matter. But you see, trying to be someone else isn’t BEing Life at all. It’s playing small, because it’s taking you further away from your #trueself. It’s great to learn from people who we trust, respect and who stretch us to be greater, and of course to support a team of truly trustworthy people. However, take what you learn from others that serves you and leave the rest behind. Celebrate who you are! Your uniqueness has value and it is in that unique part of you that you begin to spiritually evolve and inspire others to grow and step into their own unique self. #spiritualintelligence
