If someone says something to you, about you or does something that doesn’t serve either one of you, posting about it on Facebook (directly or subtly) is drawing more of the same to you.
People, who are confident about their decisions and actions in life, don’t need to gather their friends around to ‘agree’ with them. If someone told me I have purple hair, I’d say ‘With all due respect, I don’t agree with you.” That’s it. I wouldn’t spend time talking about that incident to other people, writing about it on Facebook, etc. I wouldn’t give it another thought. Why? Because I’m confident my hair isn’t purple, and I’d rather invest my time and focus my attention on the creative process. (Note: The creative process isn’t just about what you do. What you think and say as well as your intention behind what you do is a far more important part of creation.)
Even subtle posts to ‘get them back’ or ‘show them’ that others agree with you, creates more of the same drama you don’t want. What you focus on will grow – always and in ALL ways.
What option serves you better? … Let it go.
Some people may consider this a meek or passive response, and that’s okay if they choose to live in that reality. In my world though, it’s the highest form of intelligence … Spiritual Intelligence.
There exists a part of you that is not physical. It is your highest self. Your highest self is always calling to you to live life with the highest level of Love for yourself and others.
Why waste time attempting to convince anyone of anything. Would you rather be right or at peace and happy?
Perhaps you think that being ‘right’ does make you happy. Or perhaps you are able to see beyond the obvious, and realize that any time we dwell on something obsessively we are taking precious energy and time away from our own life.
We cannot be in the process of creation and looking backward at something that happened in the past and attempting to prove someone wrong about it all at the same time. A minute later everyone is a different person then they were in the past. Moment by moment we are regenerating our cells and creating a new person: body, mind, spirit, emotion, etc.
Give them grace. Allow them to BE in their own space on their own path that leads to the ultimate same destination. Their journey will take them through lessons that are different than yours. Allow them that experience and BE okay with it. It’s a win-win. Now … that’s Love. ❤
